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If you would like classmates to be notified about your funeral or memorial activities, the Class of 1962 will send information to our email list, providing we get the information in time. Please ask those who will be in charge to send the details to Bob Oliver at oliver@moglaw.com, phone 203-624-5111, and for backup to John Stewart, Co-Corresponding Secretary, at johnhargerstewart@gmail.com, phone 845-789-1407. We will not send information unless someone makes this request. Even if services are not involved, please encourage those involved to send basic information to the above and to the Yale Office of Information Resources at alumni.records@yale.edu or PO Box 208262, New Haven, CT 06520-8616, telephone 203-432-1100.


In Memoriam

By Bob Oliver
January 2012

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In 1940 when most of us were born, our life expectancy was predicted to be about 63 years. Now 50 years on from graduation day 85% of us are still alive. We who have outlived the statistical projections will gather to celebrate, share and reminiscence. As we do so, let us not forget the lives of our classmates who have predeceased us.

Unlike the experience of our parents' generation or of those born after the end of World War II, the dangers inherent in war and military service claimed the lives of only 4 of our classmates — Dick Shepherd, Clyde Edgar, Ron Schuster, and John Wilson. And as a class, we were fortunate to benefit from the achievements of medicine and science since 1940 and the improvements in living conditions in 20th century America.

At the time of our 25th Reunion, Yale Alumni Records identified the deaths of 34 classmates. Over a third of those died in accidents and plane crashes. During the next 15 years 48 more deaths were recorded. Since 2002 the predictable ills of age have taken a toll. We now count 144 deceased as of January 2012.

I believe there are more deaths of which we are unaware. During the past 50 years people and families have scattered, died, and lost touch. Memories have dimmed. In the pre-Google era and before social security numbers became standard identification, people could, if they chose or if life's path so led them, simply slip away and disappear. I have no doubt some of our classmates did so.

Since the 40th Reunion I have tried to prepare obituary essays contemporaneously with each death notice. Thus the task now was easier than in the past. Through it all, however, one dominant impression remains: how so many of our classmates led interesting and remarkable lives, distinguished by their varied contributions to community, professions, the arts, service to others and family. They answered that clarion call to service that Bill Coffin and Pres. Griswold issued in September 1958.

Classmates, too numerous to mention, provided information, leads and vignettes for these essays as did widows, family members and friends. To them and to all who helped, thank you. If reading these now brings to mind new recollections or if anyone can fill any gaps or omissions, please share with us and we will gladly revise and improve the essays for posting on our Class website.

As we happily reunite and joyously celebrate our 50th milestone, we should pause to recall and share the memories of classmates who have gone before, those whose essays follow here as well as those of whose deaths we are currently unaware. We celebrate their lives that none shall pass and be forgotten in silence.

They shall not grow old, as we that are left grow old
Age shall not weary them, nor the years condemn
At the going down of the sun and in the morning
We will remember them.

Laurence Binyon, For the Fallen


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